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hello all!
So we entered into Chapter 13 in 2018, after a failed attempt to own a business (yay american dream fail!) and a 2nd mortgage to pay back.
I feel like this was the worst decision we ever made. We were strapped before this but apparently made too much $$$ to file chapter 7.
An automatic stay was granted for the house and car.
What they don't tell you, is the house and car people stop talking to you. No contact No paperwork. They make it 1000 times harder to pay anything back.
Our mortage company has sold our mortgage to a 3rd party company. Every single year. It's been resold to another company. Only allowing us to make over the phone calls every month to make payments. It's sold every year, which means I have to make sure the taxes and insurance get paid by the new company, EVERY time. It's madness.
On top of that, the car company. As of Dec 2022 we paid our car off. That's when our repayments went higher for the chapter 13 trustee.
We were so glad not to have that payment!! We could breathe a bit after 4 years !
Until last week. We got an email from our lawyers that the car company is filing to remove the automatic stay for our car loan. We owe $7,100. I had no idea.
They gave us 5 days until the hearing. There's no way we could repay that in 5 days let alone a week!
The motion was granted to lift the stay.
I attempted to speak to the car loan company. They don't want to help us. The car is maybe worth 3k and we owe $7100. It's my only form of transportation for work. They will not do a repayment plan. We don't have $7100 to just fork over.
How do I do this? Sell it? Let it go? Has anyone been thru this?
We're almost thru is horrible mess too! I feel like Rocky .... taking blows and barely standing. I guess I'm just lost and need some kind of direction of where to go. The lawyers we have suck. I'm ready to throw in the towel.
It's been so confusing and horrible and embarrassing. I'm just tired of struggling.
Thanks for reading this if you got thru all my whiny bs. And thank you in advance for any advice!
hello all!
So we entered into Chapter 13 in 2018, after a failed attempt to own a business (yay american dream fail!) and a 2nd mortgage to pay back.
I feel like this was the worst decision we ever made. We were strapped before this but apparently made too much $$$ to file chapter 7.
An automatic stay was granted for the house and car.
What they don't tell you, is the house and car people stop talking to you. No contact No paperwork. They make it 1000 times harder to pay anything back.
Our mortage company has sold our mortgage to a 3rd party company. Every single year. It's been resold to another company. Only allowing us to make over the phone calls every month to make payments. It's sold every year, which means I have to make sure the taxes and insurance get paid by the new company, EVERY time. It's madness.
On top of that, the car company. As of Dec 2022 we paid our car off. That's when our repayments went higher for the chapter 13 trustee.
We were so glad not to have that payment!! We could breathe a bit after 4 years !
Until last week. We got an email from our lawyers that the car company is filing to remove the automatic stay for our car loan. We owe $7,100. I had no idea.
They gave us 5 days until the hearing. There's no way we could repay that in 5 days let alone a week!
The motion was granted to lift the stay.
I attempted to speak to the car loan company. They don't want to help us. The car is maybe worth 3k and we owe $7100. It's my only form of transportation for work. They will not do a repayment plan. We don't have $7100 to just fork over.
How do I do this? Sell it? Let it go? Has anyone been thru this?
We're almost thru is horrible mess too! I feel like Rocky .... taking blows and barely standing. I guess I'm just lost and need some kind of direction of where to go. The lawyers we have suck. I'm ready to throw in the towel.
It's been so confusing and horrible and embarrassing. I'm just tired of struggling.
Thanks for reading this if you got thru all my whiny bs. And thank you in advance for any advice!
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