I was curious if it is possible to furnish a letter trying to support/explain/refute charges of fraud/misrepresentation in defense of my ex-wife, and if so, whether the letter needs to be notarized in order to be used. She has a preliminary hearing tomorrow. She is ADHD and can't afford to have an attorney defend her. She didn't even consider filing for Ch.7 until I brought it up *and* paid her attorney fees (though I had no obligation to do so)...so she had no reason or opportunity to conspire to defraud her creditor. I'm not sure the arguments I make would even make a difference, but I'd like to help her out if I can.
This all started when my ex moved out and was on her own for about a year when she asked me some advice about a debt consolidation loan. She had started her own business the year previous and wasn't making much money (enough to move out though!), but had spousal support that covered her rent that was only lasting a year. I advised her to look into filing no asset ch. 7, which she had no clue about and had no cash, so I paid the fees because I know what it is like having that debt hanging over your head (and I had got off real easy on the spousal support).
Her filing went smooth until the last day for creditors to file an AP, which one did.
She apparently did a lot of spending during the last 90 days prior to filing, just shy of $6K, though in the AP they are trying to include some additional spending prior to it outside of the 90 days, claiming fraud, misrepresentation, etc, suing for a bit over $9K. Some spending was personal but plenty that was related to her business and a lot just related to living expenses.
Summary of points expressed
*Her income used to be higher when she had a job in previous years, but after failing to find another job, she started her own business. She was busy enough that she had hired some contractors to help.
*She wasn't expecting her business to do poorly, and wasn't banking on failure
*Her approved debt consolidation loan could have paid off all her creditors, so it isn't as if she had "no ability" to pay her debts in full.
*She made payments regularly, including some payments that were well above the minimum payment
*She didn't really know how bad off she was...after she started the filing and had to do the income vs expense exercises in credit counseling is when she learned she was so upside down and was able to start making changes to address that.
*She was largely not responsible for managing household finances and budget during the previous 6 years to her being on her own, she wasn't aware of her net worth and hasn't even filed her own taxes before, I used to handle all of that.
*She was not considering filing up until about a month before the filing date when I brought it up, nor could she afford the attorney's fees.
Essentially once she found out about it and that I was willing to help cover the fees, she started the process. I had told her to talk to the attorney about any previous expenditures and see if they would recommend adjusting the timing of filing, but I'm not sure she did or if the firm just wanted to get the cash and get started ASAP without regard to the potential for APs. I wasn't privy to any of that.
Anyways, thanks for the read if you were able to muddle through it. Not sure if she can even use the letter I wrote for her as is or if I need to notarize it, and even if it is usable, whether it will actually help, given the circumstances. The only thing her current attorney is doing is telling her she can start a payment plan to the creditor, starting by coughing up $2K. Her Schedule I & J was balancing out to about -615/month, so that obviously can't happen.
This all started when my ex moved out and was on her own for about a year when she asked me some advice about a debt consolidation loan. She had started her own business the year previous and wasn't making much money (enough to move out though!), but had spousal support that covered her rent that was only lasting a year. I advised her to look into filing no asset ch. 7, which she had no clue about and had no cash, so I paid the fees because I know what it is like having that debt hanging over your head (and I had got off real easy on the spousal support).
Her filing went smooth until the last day for creditors to file an AP, which one did.
She apparently did a lot of spending during the last 90 days prior to filing, just shy of $6K, though in the AP they are trying to include some additional spending prior to it outside of the 90 days, claiming fraud, misrepresentation, etc, suing for a bit over $9K. Some spending was personal but plenty that was related to her business and a lot just related to living expenses.
Summary of points expressed
*Her income used to be higher when she had a job in previous years, but after failing to find another job, she started her own business. She was busy enough that she had hired some contractors to help.
*She wasn't expecting her business to do poorly, and wasn't banking on failure
*Her approved debt consolidation loan could have paid off all her creditors, so it isn't as if she had "no ability" to pay her debts in full.
*She made payments regularly, including some payments that were well above the minimum payment
*She didn't really know how bad off she was...after she started the filing and had to do the income vs expense exercises in credit counseling is when she learned she was so upside down and was able to start making changes to address that.
*She was largely not responsible for managing household finances and budget during the previous 6 years to her being on her own, she wasn't aware of her net worth and hasn't even filed her own taxes before, I used to handle all of that.
*She was not considering filing up until about a month before the filing date when I brought it up, nor could she afford the attorney's fees.
Essentially once she found out about it and that I was willing to help cover the fees, she started the process. I had told her to talk to the attorney about any previous expenditures and see if they would recommend adjusting the timing of filing, but I'm not sure she did or if the firm just wanted to get the cash and get started ASAP without regard to the potential for APs. I wasn't privy to any of that.
Anyways, thanks for the read if you were able to muddle through it. Not sure if she can even use the letter I wrote for her as is or if I need to notarize it, and even if it is usable, whether it will actually help, given the circumstances. The only thing her current attorney is doing is telling her she can start a payment plan to the creditor, starting by coughing up $2K. Her Schedule I & J was balancing out to about -615/month, so that obviously can't happen.
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