[QUOTE=MSbklawyer;419191]Well, it's certainly an ordeal, I can understand that. But even though you've truly done nothing wrong, you have to understand that the bank does not have to take your statement that "we've done nothing wrong" at face value. They're entitled to look into it, turn over leaves and look under rocks. They have a legal duty to their shareholders to minimize any losses and to make absolutely sure that they're not being played. That's never a pleasant experience, to be under a microscope like that, but that is the adversarial system.
Sure feels like they have looked under rocks and have also performed a colonoscopy!
I understand how they have to be sure of everything and all, it's just the way this game has been played that has been so shady and difficult to digest. From the last minute filing of extensions, to the last minute 2004 exam, to the requests for more documents even though they were not on the motion to compel, to the different "theories" they have had about reasons to object ... all of it. That and the fact that they did not go after dh's business partner, his bk went through w/o a hitch. And they have another home that was pledged as collateral (a 3rd partner) and haven't done anything with it to date. That home has a significant amount of equity in it -- not that we want that family to lose their home, but we lost our stock account and are losing our home in foreclosure ... Just ready for this to end.
Sure feels like they have looked under rocks and have also performed a colonoscopy!
I understand how they have to be sure of everything and all, it's just the way this game has been played that has been so shady and difficult to digest. From the last minute filing of extensions, to the last minute 2004 exam, to the requests for more documents even though they were not on the motion to compel, to the different "theories" they have had about reasons to object ... all of it. That and the fact that they did not go after dh's business partner, his bk went through w/o a hitch. And they have another home that was pledged as collateral (a 3rd partner) and haven't done anything with it to date. That home has a significant amount of equity in it -- not that we want that family to lose their home, but we lost our stock account and are losing our home in foreclosure ... Just ready for this to end.
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