Hi all -
My husband and I just filed and I know we are facing an uphill battle.
We closed on our house in December '08, spent tens of thousands of dollars on our cards in Jan/Feb '09 (on renovations & balance transfers) and learned in April that my husband's firm was going to postpone $11,000 in bonus income that we planned to use to cover our increased CC payments.
We paid what we could throughout the spring and summer (not even close to the minimum payments) and kept in close contact with the credit card companies to let them know we expected this to be a temporary financial setback. My husband's firm kept stalling and stalling (they still claim they are going to pay out the bonus "any day now" - what BS, we're almost to 2010) on the bonus. My son was diagnosed with autism and the out-of-pocket expenses - it's going to be thousands of dollars - started rolling in.
AmEx filed a lawsuit against my husband, so we finally had to file last week.
So my question is - what can I reasonable expect as far as fraud charges from our creditors, the "Adversary Proceeding for Fraud" as I have heard it called here on the forum? Our transactions look incredibly fishy if you don't know our story, and even if you do know our story we are still idiots for living beyond our means. What is this process like? Is it the credit card companies who have to suggest fraud, or can the trustee? When in the process does this happen? Does anyone have any experience with handling this?
If it matters, our lawyer (who is respected in our area of Pennsylvania and has been practicing BK for 20 years) says he is not concerned. But from what I've read on these forums, it's definitely going to be an issue. Heck, it even "looks" bad to ME.
Any input would be greatly appreciated. I've just entered round 465 of getting an ulcer over this.
Thanks...
My husband and I just filed and I know we are facing an uphill battle.
We closed on our house in December '08, spent tens of thousands of dollars on our cards in Jan/Feb '09 (on renovations & balance transfers) and learned in April that my husband's firm was going to postpone $11,000 in bonus income that we planned to use to cover our increased CC payments.
We paid what we could throughout the spring and summer (not even close to the minimum payments) and kept in close contact with the credit card companies to let them know we expected this to be a temporary financial setback. My husband's firm kept stalling and stalling (they still claim they are going to pay out the bonus "any day now" - what BS, we're almost to 2010) on the bonus. My son was diagnosed with autism and the out-of-pocket expenses - it's going to be thousands of dollars - started rolling in.
AmEx filed a lawsuit against my husband, so we finally had to file last week.
So my question is - what can I reasonable expect as far as fraud charges from our creditors, the "Adversary Proceeding for Fraud" as I have heard it called here on the forum? Our transactions look incredibly fishy if you don't know our story, and even if you do know our story we are still idiots for living beyond our means. What is this process like? Is it the credit card companies who have to suggest fraud, or can the trustee? When in the process does this happen? Does anyone have any experience with handling this?
If it matters, our lawyer (who is respected in our area of Pennsylvania and has been practicing BK for 20 years) says he is not concerned. But from what I've read on these forums, it's definitely going to be an issue. Heck, it even "looks" bad to ME.
Any input would be greatly appreciated. I've just entered round 465 of getting an ulcer over this.
Thanks...
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