This is a recap of my story - it's to give encouragement to others going through the same thing...
I owed my biggest creditor about $41,000. They filed an adversary complaint claiming fraud. After going back and forth with their attorney, I very reluctantly signed a an agreement for $40,000 to be paid over time because I was scared about having to pay their attorney's fees if I lost.
I can't say enough good things about the judge in my case. He was not agree to the stipulation I signed as he thought it was completely unfair for me to pay essentially the whole amount of the loans given the facts of the case that he had. (One of the loans I had with their creditor the facts weren't good for me - though I never intended for this to happen, I got a car secured loan and never sent them the title due to my poor choices)
It was now about two years since they filed the adversary proceeding and many status conferences and hearing later including me defending a summary judgement motion filed by the plaintiff. Our next appearance was to be the pretrial conference before the actual trial.
However, I got a letter in the mail from the attorney saying the plaintiff wanted to sign a stipulation dismissing the case! Two years ago I had agreed to pay them $500/month for about 7 years (essentially making the whole filing of the bk useless), but now I am walking away from this bankruptcy with a clean slate!
What I want others to take from this is not to give in to the plaintiff, especially if they have a forceful attorney like the one I was up against. She was very nasty to me and "bullied" me.
Their are laws in place to protect debtors from plaintiffs that file adversary complaints without a strong basis. I believe the plaintiff gave up because they realized I was no longer willing to give in to them and they knew they would be penalized if I showed cause when I won the case. They dragged this on for 2 years - hoping I'd give in again. But I stayed strong (no matter how hard it was) and won in the end.
I've learned so much from this experience. If you have any questions, let me know and I'll help as much as possible.
Good luck to all!!
I owed my biggest creditor about $41,000. They filed an adversary complaint claiming fraud. After going back and forth with their attorney, I very reluctantly signed a an agreement for $40,000 to be paid over time because I was scared about having to pay their attorney's fees if I lost.
I can't say enough good things about the judge in my case. He was not agree to the stipulation I signed as he thought it was completely unfair for me to pay essentially the whole amount of the loans given the facts of the case that he had. (One of the loans I had with their creditor the facts weren't good for me - though I never intended for this to happen, I got a car secured loan and never sent them the title due to my poor choices)
It was now about two years since they filed the adversary proceeding and many status conferences and hearing later including me defending a summary judgement motion filed by the plaintiff. Our next appearance was to be the pretrial conference before the actual trial.
However, I got a letter in the mail from the attorney saying the plaintiff wanted to sign a stipulation dismissing the case! Two years ago I had agreed to pay them $500/month for about 7 years (essentially making the whole filing of the bk useless), but now I am walking away from this bankruptcy with a clean slate!
What I want others to take from this is not to give in to the plaintiff, especially if they have a forceful attorney like the one I was up against. She was very nasty to me and "bullied" me.
Their are laws in place to protect debtors from plaintiffs that file adversary complaints without a strong basis. I believe the plaintiff gave up because they realized I was no longer willing to give in to them and they knew they would be penalized if I showed cause when I won the case. They dragged this on for 2 years - hoping I'd give in again. But I stayed strong (no matter how hard it was) and won in the end.
I've learned so much from this experience. If you have any questions, let me know and I'll help as much as possible.
Good luck to all!!
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