Originally posted by HHM
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My wife and I lost our jobs. She lost hers a year before I did. So, even though we had spotless credit, we were unable to meet our obligations. They were not excessive. But we wanted to hold on to our house which we had about $20k in equity. So we lived on my $1680 a month of my umemployment, made a first mortgage payment of $1513, and a second of $539, on a $285,000 house. We cut all expenses - food, gas, cell phone, cable, etc. We exhausted our savings just trying to stay alive. This is not bragging or whining, just the facts. In many ways we are lucky compared to some situations I have read about here. I have been an electrical engineer for 28 years, and found myself out of work for 7 months. So we found ourselves needing to file, in the hopes of ridding ourselves of non secured credit debt. We are lucky enough to own our cars.
We really did learn our lesson the hard way. And for the record, we filed Ch 7 on 11/24/10 and were discharged on 3/2/11. My case is still open because the trustee is waiting for 90% of our tax return.
I found work and regained my income. My wife still is unemployed, but with a fresh start, we are able to do ok on my income. Like I said, I feel lucky. But we did a ride through on our mortgage. And we are very safe and stable people, and we want our home refinanced. We have an 8 year old ARM on the first mortgage, and we are lucky it adjusted down for the last few years - now at 3.25%. But we can't bet on that forever. So, to attain the goal of a refinance in two years (FHA guidelines), we need to re-establish ourselves.
And I'm not going to wait and do nothing for two years. I will diligently clean up our three reports and establish the minimum amount of credit to meet our goals. I do appreciate all of the tips I have gathered from members of this forum.
We don't want new cars. We don't want huge credit debts. All we use the CapOne card for is to buy gasoline for my commuting. Nothing else. We pay cash for everything else. I wouldn't call that excessive.
All I wanted to do with a larger bank was to deposit money in an account, get a secured loan, and have the loan pay itself off. A totally hands free move. Just to establish an installment loan, on top of a small revolving credit card with CapOne that reports to all CRAs. And my local credit union only reports to one credit bureau. I have since joined NFCU and will work with them, maybe on a credit card, but definitely on a secured installment loan. My attorney told me that a credit card and an installment loan would look very good to a mortgage broker or company. Because of the ride through, my first and second mortgage lenders - Citibank and Aurora Loan Services, refuse to report on time payments, so they do nothing for my credit rebuilding effort.
As far as employment goes, I carry a DoD security clearance where I have to report financial problems and bankruptcy. My clearance is reivestigated every five years. And to mitigate the possibilty of revoking my clearance, I have to show that I can responsibly handle my debts. Mitigating the BK just discharged will take the remaining four years of good credit performance, not just living on cash with no credit. During the investigations, I have credit checks run, and will have to have a Special Investigator sit down with me while I explain my situation.
I'm sorry for the long response, and I told you way too much about my situation, but I wanted to clear the air. This is not about the fervor of returning to debt. It is about rebuilding my credit score. I think we have learned our lesson - the biggest lesson was to return to school and get a Masters degree so that I hopefully remain employed for the rest of my working life. Poor spending habits may have contributed to our BK, but unemployment drove us to it. I worry about my reinvestigation when it comes up. We don't want the credit other than to refinance our house - to provide a little stability to a loan that can go up in interest rates. And in reality, the lenders could just foreclose, sell the house, and take the profits. I doubt they will, but it is a possibility.
Thanks for reading, Tom.
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