I initially wanted to keep my home following a separation and now soon to be a divorce. The separation forced me to file CH 7. However, now I'm regretting that I kept the house, and wish now I had sold the house, paid of my car, and then found an apartment for a few years, filing only after I got a place if absolutely necessary. Now I'm stuck in a town I hate, surrounded by a constant reminder of what I once had, and I'm slowly losing my mind. Its been a month since the discharge, which is great, but now I'm realizing just how "trapped" that has made me. I'm not feeling the free feeling I thought I would feel. The soonest I can get a mortgage again is 2 years, probably 5.
I've tried renting an apartment, they must be laughing at me because the BK is disqualifying me from passing their "credit check". Everyone requires a credit check, and some have been so upfront as to say if you show a bankruptcy, I' won't rent to you no matter how long its been. They just shred the application, on top of that they ask YOU to pay for the credit check. Even the slum lords want a credit check. They don't care that your wife stabbed you in the back and walked out one day with no notice, leaving you with a pile of debt and on top of that wants MORE from you.
Really wish I has thought this through- a guess a word of advice, if you are going through a divorce please, strongly consider selling the house instead of bankruptcy, cause you could end up trapped for years...
I've tried renting an apartment, they must be laughing at me because the BK is disqualifying me from passing their "credit check". Everyone requires a credit check, and some have been so upfront as to say if you show a bankruptcy, I' won't rent to you no matter how long its been. They just shred the application, on top of that they ask YOU to pay for the credit check. Even the slum lords want a credit check. They don't care that your wife stabbed you in the back and walked out one day with no notice, leaving you with a pile of debt and on top of that wants MORE from you.
Really wish I has thought this through- a guess a word of advice, if you are going through a divorce please, strongly consider selling the house instead of bankruptcy, cause you could end up trapped for years...
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