Hi everyone!
Our 60 days are up at the end of this month. We gave up my car in the bankruptcy (We're about 5k upside down on it and the payment is $505/month). I'm assuming the bank isn't going to let me drive it for free forever (I haven't paid the note in 3 months) so I'm trying to figure out what to do.
I would like to just be a one car family, but there are several things keeping us from it -- we live in a small rural area that has no public transportation, for one. My husband has a car with a manual transmission and I can't drive a stick. I suppose I could learn, but he uses his car a few times a week to meet with clients. I am a pregnant college student and need to get to school and back two days a week, and have to pick up our son from school every day at 3. There is no bus service at his elementary school -- we don't live far away but it is too far to walk, especially pregnant with twins. Plus, we have snow and cold 8 months out of the year so yeah . . . that also makes walking to get him difficult. Anyway next semester all of my classes are going to be online as my pregnancy is high risk and will probably be on bedrest after the first of the year until I deliver. That would eliminate my need for a car EXCEPT . . . Still gotta get my son, plus I will have doctors appointments weekly and perinatologist appointments twice a week. We don't have family and next to no friends here (we've only been here a year) so there is no one that can help us
I HATE car buying and I'm really resenting having to do this. I wish we could just keep my car
Anyway, I've been reading and driving myself crazy on this, because I do have a mental block that keeps me from buying a junker. 7 years ago my 19 yo brother was killed by a drunk driver -- he drove an old 87 honda civic -- it just folded up like an aluminum can. He had his seatbelt but being hit head on by a drunk going 70, in a car like that, nothing was gonna save him Since then, I will NOT put my son (now 6) in a car that I don't feel is VERY safe. And I am from the south so driving on snowy, icy roads makes me VERY nervous. After 2 weeks of searching, NO cars in my budget meet my safety needs. That, and I'm worried that I'll dump my budget (our entire savings) on some end of life car that will need constant work and we won't have the extra money for it.
What do you guys do? I hate the idea of going back to a car note . . Plus, I doubt I could be approved for one . . But I don't know what to do! Please help!!
Our 60 days are up at the end of this month. We gave up my car in the bankruptcy (We're about 5k upside down on it and the payment is $505/month). I'm assuming the bank isn't going to let me drive it for free forever (I haven't paid the note in 3 months) so I'm trying to figure out what to do.
I would like to just be a one car family, but there are several things keeping us from it -- we live in a small rural area that has no public transportation, for one. My husband has a car with a manual transmission and I can't drive a stick. I suppose I could learn, but he uses his car a few times a week to meet with clients. I am a pregnant college student and need to get to school and back two days a week, and have to pick up our son from school every day at 3. There is no bus service at his elementary school -- we don't live far away but it is too far to walk, especially pregnant with twins. Plus, we have snow and cold 8 months out of the year so yeah . . . that also makes walking to get him difficult. Anyway next semester all of my classes are going to be online as my pregnancy is high risk and will probably be on bedrest after the first of the year until I deliver. That would eliminate my need for a car EXCEPT . . . Still gotta get my son, plus I will have doctors appointments weekly and perinatologist appointments twice a week. We don't have family and next to no friends here (we've only been here a year) so there is no one that can help us
I HATE car buying and I'm really resenting having to do this. I wish we could just keep my car
Anyway, I've been reading and driving myself crazy on this, because I do have a mental block that keeps me from buying a junker. 7 years ago my 19 yo brother was killed by a drunk driver -- he drove an old 87 honda civic -- it just folded up like an aluminum can. He had his seatbelt but being hit head on by a drunk going 70, in a car like that, nothing was gonna save him Since then, I will NOT put my son (now 6) in a car that I don't feel is VERY safe. And I am from the south so driving on snowy, icy roads makes me VERY nervous. After 2 weeks of searching, NO cars in my budget meet my safety needs. That, and I'm worried that I'll dump my budget (our entire savings) on some end of life car that will need constant work and we won't have the extra money for it.
What do you guys do? I hate the idea of going back to a car note . . Plus, I doubt I could be approved for one . . But I don't know what to do! Please help!!
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