I hope this helps someone in the future, but I didn't read anywhere in all the 7 or so books I got my hands on before filing my pro se Chapter 7 that housewives/homemakers need to verify their income too (just like their husbands have their paychecks), by writting on paper "I am a housewife and my income is $0." and getting that notarized, then file it with your petition along with copies of your husbands paychecks.
I received a "Notice of deficient filing" and had to go add mine.